Think about a time when someone’s response hurt you so deeply it twisted through your body. Maybe it felt like a tightening in your chest, a sinking in your stomach, or a heaviness you couldn’t shake. What were the words that caused that reaction? Perhaps it was: • “We have decided to let you go.” […]
Next week, I will be facilitating an ongoing program I offer which is a three-day leadership program for a group of insurance executives. It’s an exciting opportunity—these sessions are always full of energy, deep reflection, and real transformation. Part of the program includes a 360-degree assessment where leaders are provided with feedback that helps them […]
Here are two pictures of me that tell a powerful story. One is of a 3-year-old me, full of curiosity, with bright eyes and an open heart. The other is at age 7. My eyes had changed—more serious, more closed off By then, I had already begun to learn the rules of the world around […]
As a business development manager for a large insurance company, I was a leader in my field. Known for my results, praised for my work, and seen as a shining example of success, it seemed I had it all. But although it all looked good on the outside, I had a secret—a part of me […]
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The Heroic Trap That Sneaked Up on Me Once upon a time, in the not-so-distant world of leadership coaching, there lived a coach who, like any good coach, wanted to make everything better. Let's call this coach, well, me. The Drama Triangle: A Quick Peek You might be wondering, what on LinkedIn's green earth is […]
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In today's dynamic corporate world, where innovation and adaptability are key, it's vital for leaders to embrace and leverage neurodiversity. Different minds bring unique strengths to the table. Let's explore this concept through a playful workplace story featuring an ADHD mindset and a Type A personality, demonstrating how their clashing traits can evolve into a […]
Dear Leaders, Picture this: you're in a meeting, discussing important business matters, and suddenly you find yourself reacting like a misunderstood toddler in a candy store. You might be wondering, "What on earth is happening here?" Well, fear not! It's not a sudden bout of immaturity; it's your inner child making a guest appearance in […]
“I had the best conversation with my boss yesterday,” a friend shared with me over the weekend. “We spoke for over three hours. I was able to give him feedback on the leadership team and ideas on how we could make improvements,” he sounded happier than he'd been in months. “Sounds like a breakthrough,” I […]
Last week I attended a management training program as a way to continually learn new ways to approach business. As in most trainings, the speaker used a string of sports team analogies to help illustrate and apply certain management techniques.
